Get Back Your Ex Just By Being Less Available And Even More Of A Challenge To Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm going to make a wild guess here, however can it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she understands that if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and twisted around her finger just by saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, but as you know, to become a challenge again you have to prove to your ex that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then consider just what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other choices.
Your lady won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not directly communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Do not be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a convenient reason to stay separated. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)
However, always keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Most likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back.
The best response to this is "No, not yet. The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the idea that you are an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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